That Awkward Moment

I’ve re watched That Awkward Moment so many times because for some strange reason it’s among my favourite movies. Anyway I recently watched it and got what the awkward moment is yes I was that slow. It’s the so..? Right? Like when you’re in something with someone and have absolutely no idea what it is or if it’s even going anywhere and you’re like sooo what are we doing? Or where is this going? Most of us are scared as hell of asking this especially females because we just don’t want to feel pushy at all. It’s an incredibly awkward moment because it just comes out of nowhere and most of the time we are scared of hearing the response. Like the saying don’t tell me because it hurts? We want to stay and live in that fantasy where you are both happy hooking up and whatever but then you are scared of reality what if it stops being fun and one of you loses interest do you define the relationship? (DTR) yeah we are all at that place in sometimes and these days no one really has the bf/gf conversation to be honest so what do we do? Well I guess just go for it have the awkward moment and see how it goes. Rather than having the intense anxiety of having absolutely no idea what’s going on or if there is even anything going on. So that’s my advice go for it! And even I will try to go for it...when im there.